Happy: You are happy or not really depends on your perception of things around you. In Chinese, ‘Happy’ is written in two words “open” and “heart”, you will be HAPPY if you open your heart. One of the quotes by Charles Churchill “if you mean to profit, learn to please’. There are some basic elements to be happy according to my own bible: You are alive and healthy, you can do things follow your heart, and most important you have someone to share with both your sadness and happiness!